How to read bend-and-hold labels
Check whether the maker actually says the shaft holds an adjusted shape.
Look for an explicit statement
Soft and flexible describe how a product moves under pressure. A bend-and-hold or posable claim describes how it behaves after adjustment. Compare the descriptions before treating those labels as equivalent.
Ask about limits
These listings do not publish a maximum bend radius, the force needed to reshape the shaft or how long an adjusted curve is retained. Ask the maker for limits if the distinction matters. Avoid forcing a sharp fold.
Compare alternatives by construction
If adjustability is not important, the broader double-ended dildo comparison includes flexible and fixed shapes. The categories answer different buying questions.